Real life is scary enough

I’m pretty sure I’m the only person who’s never seen Alien. Not at the movies, not on the tube, or on the Disney World ride. Never have. Never will. Back when it was all the rage, I had a sure-fire way of not having to defend my status as a wimp. Some horror movie buff would be describing how “this other life form just comes busting out” and how it was a must-see, to which I’d reply: “Don’t need to. I just had a baby, remember? I can relate well enough.” End of conversation.

Alien and other classic creature features must pale in comparison now that 20-plus years of new technology have brought more and more horrific scenes into living rooms across the country. I can still only imagine. Maybe I’m some sort of alien myself for avoiding the flicks while most other folks tune in at every opportunity, choosing to make themselves sweat, shake, gasp, and fear for their lives. I guess I just don’t find cringing on my couch in gut-wrenching terror a particularly good night’s entertainment. Besides, although I spend the bulk of my time living an idyllic lakeside existence, I still suffer through my share of moments filled with dread or apprehension and, by nighttime, I’m ready to settle in with a couple mindless sitcoms.

The adrenaline rush, I suppose, is why people want to watch today’s version of Leatherface buzzing up piles of human kindling with his chainsaw. They get a cheap high when witnessing someone’s dismemberment and their adrenal glands respond by pumping out high-octane juice. But since adrenaline’s real purpose is to boost physical strength—allowing a victim to flee from or fight off an attacker—I can’t help but wonder how it gets channeled through couch potatoes who routinely OD their circuits with terror. If I did choose to watch repeated zombie, creepy crawly, or bloody massacre scenes, wouldn’t I need to put the DVD on pause, rush out on my porch to scream my lungs out, and come back in for another dose? Wouldn’t I get used to tolerating higher levels of terror, seeking more and more harder core DVDs to give me that extra surge of secretions I’d be craving?

I’ll be content with merely hypothesizing about the effects of prolonged make-believe terror. Good thing, because given my baggage and the everyday real life little shocks to my system I manage to pile on, if I watched more than a few minutes of that stuff, I’d end up looking like lakeside Chucky myself! I’m still recovering from all the times in my formative years (when televisions were still a novelty) that my fun-loving family made me the entertainment: “I told her the UFOs were making the rounds in the neighborhood and our house was next. That got her going!” I never even got a vacation, just a new twist: “Right before dark, I hid behind the outhouse and scratched on it like a big, ol’ bear. She was a couple feet off the ground when she came out of there!”

Nope, I’ve had a steady enough stream of adrenaline coursing through me, thank you very much. A lifetime supply, I figure, administered in various doses by all manner of things like:

  • Motherhood. Raising two wonderful and remarkably well-adjusted daughters has brought me way more joy than trepidation. But let’s face it. From the moment the maternity nurse handed over ownership of my own new life forms, and on through the gauntlet of gruesome possibilities known as the teenage years, I’ve had some fitful nights and more than a few nail biters.  Now that they are both grown women, I can breathe a bit easier. Except, of course, when Helen, who worked at the Portsmouth Music Hall, told me she had been perched on a ladder somewhere near the proscenium dome getting ready for a production. Or when Becky, an Outward Bound instructor based in Moab, Utah, reported that she’d be “entering Dark Canyon” on such and such a day, or “down in Desolation Canyon” on another.
  • Any time I’ve found myself saying: “Yes doctor, I understand.” Trips to Maine Medical, particularly when I’m greeted by doctors with their heads bowed, still haunt me. And, on the subject of medical trauma, getting test results back in the mail with the box checked off letting me know my results are “not within the range of normal,” that’s some scary stuff, too.
  • Also finding myself saying: “Yes officer/your honor,  I understand.” Hasn’t happened much and, fortunately, not on the same day as any doctor scares, but once or twice is enough.
  • Commuting down Route 128 near Boston. I only subjected myself for short spurts back when I was making a name for myself along the tech corridor, but that drive still gives me cold sweats.
  • Being audited by the IRS. Before that, the word “fine” meant I was OK and all was right with my world. Not anymore, and certainly not in the context of a cryptic federal document.
  • Snakes! The hardest part of living in the woods is that, until you get really close, all sticks look like snakes. And vice versa.
  • Watching a pair of love seats fly out of our trailer on the Maine Turnpike. They were wedged in there with all the logistical expertise that allowed Tom to successfully cart loads up here for more than 20 years. They were a matching set, carefully swathed in bubble wrap to protect their burgundy leather upholstery. Real leather, we were proud to say, to replace a gold tweed recliner and other ancient chairs we weren’t bringing back into our new living room (for a more complete list, see Self Storage Ins and Outs). And they were heavy, built to last…or so we thought until a freakish wind shear reached down like the hand of God and levitated them up and out of our trailer just south of Portland. Thanks to adrenaline-induced super human strength, Tom was able to sprint into the center lane and haul the love seats back over the side of the turnpike before the next round of semis barreled past. The safety patrol guy that stopped to help said our leather furniture wasn’t the scariest thing he’d ever seen in the middle of the turnpike, but wouldn’t elaborate. When our heart rates returned to somewhere within the range of normal, I told Tom that Flying Love Seats, if nothing else, would make a great name for a punk rock band. (Weird twisted humor, I’ve found, is a great calming agent when wine is inappropriate.)
  • Hearing a long-eared owl claiming its nightly kill at the end of our driveway. Before we figured out this Rangeley relative of a screech-owl wasn’t a little old lady being ax murdered, we spent some chilling moments out on the porch in our underwear wondering what it wanted from us. Now there’s a haunting sound that would give any trick-or-treaters who are brave enough to come out my way a kick butt dose of natural adrenaline!

Happy Halloween everyone. Play safe!

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2 Responses to Real life is scary enough

  1. Diana Upham says:

    I’m with you, Joy. Never seen a scary movie, never will


  2. Karen says:

    Does this mean you won’t watch “Psycho” with me?


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